Picture Perfect

For anyone who hasn't visited Christian Spanking Fellowship's Facebook page (which you can see and join
 here), I wanted to share this picture. Overall, CSF is not going to be an explicit website, as I understand that many of you who might be browsing this blog probably want to stay as far from pornographic images as possible. But I think this image does an excellent job of showing a real spanking relationship between two lovers without simply being "wank material".

Since your eyes are probably immediately drawn to the young lady getting spanked, take a close look at her facial expression and body position. Obviously she is not enjoying the burning sting that her man is causing her to feel, which means that the spanking is legitimately hurting and not just light foreplay (not that there's anything wrong with that in the slightest). But she is not angry or spiteful; she is submissive and remorseful, most likely a very sorry girl who knows she deserves a good spanking.

Perhaps the most interesting thing is that she is not depicted as struggling to escape her fate. While this may change as the spanking drags out (let's face it, her panties are on, she's not getting off that easy), at this moment, she is not fighting to escape her spanking, even though it hurts. This implies that she trusts the man spanking her and wants to be spanked, whether because she enjoys it or because she needs the cathartic experience of being punished.

As we look at the body language of the spanker, we see that he is holding the young lady in a close, very affectionate way, and not one that is overly restrictive to her movement. So not only does he trust her to stay still, but he is not forcing her to. We see her in her face, presumably scolding, but most definitely personally investing in the spanking and not simply being a stone cold mechanic. It is very clear that he cares about her deeply, even though he is roasting her bottom.

Obviously, the heart around the couple implies romance and love. Perhaps this is simple foreplay. For many, a good, sound spanking that leaves the Sub with a warm, red bottom is the best prelude to hot, romantic sex. Or perhaps the woman has done something wrong and is being punished, but it is clearly by a man who loves her dearly and only wants the best for her, who she trusts completely.

In my view, this is a perfect example of what spanking between partners should look like in the Christian home. We don't know the reason for it, but we can tell without a shadow of a doubt that they love and trust each other.

So however you go about your spanking, remember to love your partner with everything you have. Put them first, learn their needs and wants, communicate with them, trust them. Become incredibly intimate. This is what spanking is all about.